Two out of 5 people in my family abuse me what to do?

Two out of 5 people in my family abuse me.. What should I do??? And if I would call the police they wouldn’t do anything. And then I would like get hit so hard after…

What should I do other than calling the police???

Im 13..

Answer #1

call the police before you get REALLY hurt. but then again I have no idea where you live. Coastal areas, the cops care…more inland and south…not so much. I would tell a councelor or teacher at shcool, they know how to deal with that better and what steps to take. besides it’ll look better for you when another adult sticks up and takes your side. trust me on this… they also have safe-houses and this place called “The Sanctury”. I knew where you were I ‘d send you links to those, but since I dont’ try to research it on the net. if you live around Cali and the south there are AMAZING child abuse cetners (I really want to work there, I’ve been beggin them for years on information for when they will set up in NY) it’s called CHILDHELP USA., see if there are any in your area. they will FIGHT for you, to stop whoever is hurting you whether it be your paretns or someone else. here’s the website: http://www.childhelp.org/

good luck! please stay safe and never be afraid to stand up for your self, in this situation you need help though, so make sure you have someone to back you up, for your own safety.

Answer #2

Omg first of all sorry, you must be feeling so sad now. I was/am going through the same thing. I posted a question (violent dad and violent dad 2 ) and got some great advice. I am now currently staying with my brother after my dad hit both of us. So try telling a different family member that maybe you can stay with. You should try and stay as far from them as possible. Your ment to feel safe around your family not constantly terrified that if you do something wrong you will end up with bruises all over you. Talk to someone you trust, anyone. Dont do what I did was keep it to your self and bottle all your anger up. When I told my brother who got hit too we both supported each other and looked out for each other. You will get through this. If you ever need to talk im here. :)

Answer #3

I no how you feel, I am going through the same thing, but at an adoption home, try the police at least once, then if you think that your parents or whoever is abusing you won’t like it, tell the police, they should understand

Answer #4

Tell somebody in your family of friends or call the human department of resources or whatever its called.

Answer #5

I think you should call the police because they will do something about it… I’m sure. But, they may put you in foster care.

Answer #6

Why do you think th police won’t do anything? You have to report it! Any kind of abuse that is going on! Is it from a Parent? If NOT go and tell them! ask some one you trust for help, maybe a teacher or a counselor at school! Please get help!

Answer #7

the best thing to do is to call a child helpine I dont know if there is any in the USA =S because I live in london.. but anyway.. you should definitly report it to the police.. they take all reports of abuse seriously and they certainly wouldnt ignore your situation. goodluck =) xx

Answer #8

tell a teacher or counselor or some adult you really trust!! or call a helpline for child abuse. report it to the police and you could get them charged for whatever they did to you. I’m so sorry you had to deal with it. I do too.

Answer #9

I completly agree witht hte answer above. You need to report it, the police will believe you! And if they don’t, make them believe you, cry and tell them everythign they do, show them any scars. Record their voices if they threaten you. If it isn’t your parents than tell your parents! You should not be abused!!! You need to tell someone about it. Yes a teacher or conselour or minister/preacher, boss at work, co-worker, friends, other family that isn’t abusing you, coaches, neighbors, somebody. Nobody wants you to get hurt, please tell somebody, mainly the police

Answer #10

Call Social services. That’s terrible that people in your family abuse you like that. You don’t need that. If calling Social Services doesn’t work, I suggest living with another relative if possible. It isn’t right! you didn’t do anything wrong! I can relate to what you’re going through since my mother and one of my sisters abused me when I was your age. Thankfuly, I don’t live with my parents anymore. I’m so sorry you’re putting up with this. It would be best to move out and start fresh. First call social services and see what they say. Or find another relative to live with.

Answer #11

Call a hotline. Talk to someone you can totally trust. Thats pretty poor of the police not doing anything about it. Too busy catching people going 10kmph over the speed limit to go out to calls where people are getting hurt. Revenue, go figure. You could always make sure you are crying when you call, or make yourself cry when you call. This way it seems just that much more important although I dont actually know if this will work.

Just my 2c

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