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How can I get the state to believe that my siblings were abused?

Alright so I have two brothers and one sister. I have come to find out that there moms ex-boyfriend did some pretty bad things to them. Now when I say bad I mean from shoulder to ankle on one side is black and blue from whippings. It does get worse but I am afraid that if I say it I might offend some people or even make them cry. What he did was bad. Anyway I want the state to know what happened but they won’t listen to me and we have pictures to prove it. I would really like some ideas on how to handle this because at this point if I even see that man I will do something..I don’t like him and finding this out has upset me because I have always been there for my siblings. And the time I wasn’t something happened. I do need advice. Very much so.

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Answer #1

It isn’t being done to me. It is being done to my brothers and sister. ..My mother does indeed know about this. But the thing is is that we (me and my siblings) share the same father and not the same mother. Their mother and our father are fighting over who is the better parent. When the kids were staying with their mother. She had a boyfriend who was not very nice. As said above. One of your grandmothers took pictures of one of my brothers with the bruises. But the court will not believe it for the time being. And we don’t now how to get them to believe. As I said above I have always been there for them. Our step sister used to throw toys at them and they came to me cry. They knew I would help them and I did. But for the time I wsn’t there..all of this happend and now the kids won’t tell us because they think we will hate them. They don’t know that we know but it is very diffecult to know what happened. They go between Redding and New Mexico and I live far way from both places. Now not only do I feel that it is my fault but now I know why my siblings are the way they are.

Answer #2

personally I would probly kill the guy but maybe im being overdramatic you could look in a phone book and call a lawyer and explain your situation you would need that because our government is sad and they wont pay attntion unless you are cute and white you need an adult to represent you so they will pay attention I have learned from experience that when an adult says somthing its “always right” but when a kid its “just being dramatic”

Answer #3

i am soo sorry, next time stuff like that happens, ask to go to one of your friends houses and call the police there and tell there parents, by the way,,does your mom know this happens, your mom needs 2 know

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