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A week until I decide..keep/adopt/abort

I I am 21 and I have strong christian beliefs. I am a junior in college and recently I found out I am 5.5 weeks pregnant. At the moment I don’t know what to do. I am against abortions but my boyfriend isn’t. I want to keep the baby or give it up for adoption. I have people telling me to do what is right for me and I have people saying have an adoption. I really want some outside opinions. I dont feel having a baby will keep or retard me from my dreams. I will still graduate on time. The only difference is I will have to move off campus and find housing–which may not be easy due to my credit :(. I have looked into receiving federal assistance for housing. I’m grown so I am not looking for anyone to talk down to me as if im a child. I am just considering my options and wanting opinions. God bless.

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Answer #1

thank you guys for your advice..oh yeah im independent so my parents opinion doesnt really count. im still undecisive

Answer #2

Hey hun! Do what you want to do. It is not up to your boyfriend. Do not abort the baby, especially being a stong Christian (I am too) I know you will regret it. If you want to keep it then keep it. Yes it will be hard, but life itsn’t easy. My sister is 22 and has a 16 month old and she couldnt be happier. She doesnt have a great paying job or anything, but she makes it ok. I think this baby will be a blessing onto you as long as you take care of yourself while you are pregnant and dont let your boyfriend push you into abortion. You can do it! God will help you get though it and you will be blessed with a beautiful child. Good luck :)

Answer #3

keepin the baby will be worth it..especially you sayin that you have christian beliefs, if you did you would count on God to help you and you wouldnt have no problem. the baby is a blesing, dont be a foul to adopt or abort.

Answer #4

Hmm… when a person doesnt know that 5.5 weeks is not over two months (because 2 months has 8 weeks in it) and that you can abort in the first THREE months, you kinda gotta wonder… oh never mind, I figured it out, apparently she’s 14 and wants to get pregnant…

Do what you feel is best for you… Which may even mean not aborting… Because that is best for your mental health… Or it may be aborting…

This is really your choice… I’m very pro-choice, but the important part in this whole thing is CHOICE. you decide what is best for you. Not what a bunch of self-righteous people believe is best for you…

Answer #5

to begin with, you are over age you can pick if you want to abort it or put it up for adoption what your parents think it really shouldn’t matter to you I also belive that no child should be aborted because its not their fault its yours if you can’t handel having a baby stop having unprotected sex it may be hard having a baby and you still in school and stuff but nobody said it would be easy for me I think you should keep it the baby and just finish school its not going to hold you back

good luck !!

Answer #6

Well, you can’t abort the child because the baby is over 2 months in development.

Answer #7

THANK you GUYS WELL LADIES…IM KEEPING THE BABY PRAY 4 ME please

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