What should I tell the people who call my mom a slut?

my mom had my sister when she was 18 then my mom and dad got married right when they found out she was going to have a baby. when I tell people this they keep saying my mom was a slut. it’s so untrue and it really bothers me. what sould I tell these people?

Answer #1

Like ALL of us she makes mistakes - she got pregnant as a teenager (as many do) and when she found out, she and my Dad immediately did the right thing and married - making a single mistake is certainly not a slut - take your classless opinion elsewhere !!

Merry Christmas !!

Answer #2

You could simply not tell them your sister was conceived out of wedlock (not that I think there’s anything wrong with it, but since you seem to be surrounded by particularly narrow minded idiots, I’d say save yourself the trouble)

Answer #3

Tell them to learn what the word ‘slut’ means before trying to use it to insult someone because they are just making themselves look stupid. A slut is someone who sleeps with a lot of people, so someone calling your mom a slut for that is completely lame.

Answer #4

tell them there morons dont let there comments get to you whoever makes comments like that shouldnt affect your life …at all you dont want to know these people, your not ffeinds with them so try to realise that people like that only say those things because they have no idea what a slut actually is… they just throw words around to put other people down a slut is someone who sleeps around for the fun of it not a woman who got pregnant from having sex one time try to realise that these people are complete idiots and just laugh back at them because they really dont deserve anything more than that

Answer #5

Just tell people, “People make mistakes, and some just have to live with it longer than others!” These people just need to give it up, try to let it slide off your shoulders. You know better, and people just like to talk about others, and then they feel better about there miserable lives. As long as you know the truth, and your family knows the truth that is the main thing.

Answer #6

ask them if they’ve ever participated in sexual activities…see what they say. no one’s perfect, and they should keep their mouths shut. they’ll end up having sex before 18, and they may end up having kids by the age of 18.

and don’t tell people about your mother, just cause of the problems you recieve from it.

Answer #7

seriously tell them to go F%^K themselves I had my son when I was 18 and I was sooo young my relationship lasted long but eventually me and his dad split I now have a 6 month old by my now boyfriend and im 24 now. there are lots of issues you deal with when your young and its because when your that young you dont understand grown up things like a grownup relationship and what things will be like due to lack of experience so maybe dont tell everyone you meet only the people you trust or a school counsellor or your best friends mom eventually they will grow up and understand things better! you or your sibling were not mistakes so just ignore the best you can

Answer #8

My mom got married and had me before she was 19. It doesnt make her a slut and if people think that then fck ‘em. I think its pretty sweet. Im 18 now and my mas still young and I can party with her. Just think the people who say that are probably just jealous because their moms are old and crusty. Aha. Either that or their moms are such sluts that it makes them feel better to call your ma a slut. If I were you Id tell them ‘yeah but I bet she can beat your moms a*.’ And laugh them off =]

Answer #9

well first off you could stop telling them about your mom. if you want people to stop calling your mom a slut, you should stop telling people about her. second, just ignore those people and tell them that everyone makes mistakes and that tons of teenagers get pregnant! example: my neighbor got pregnant when she was about 18

Answer #10

Did they plan to have your sister? Just wondering

But no, that doesnt make your mother a slut…a slut by definition is someone who goes and humps just about everyone he/she sees. Your mother’s no slut, though if she didnt plan to have the baby it may have been a little foolish

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