Mom is pissed at me and she is calling me a slut skank etc

Ok well first of sorry this is so long second of all I don’t know how old you are but people are saying your 14 so I am going to say your 14 any ways. First of all any one who says your not in love or can’t be in love is wrong. But your mother has that right as a parent to forbid you to see him. I agree it’s wrong and all but do you really think at 14 or any teen age year really you should be thinking sexually? You know when I was 14 I had sex with my x boyfriend I THOUGHT at that time I was head over heals IN LOVE with him then like a year and a half after he left me I found MR.PERFECT. He was every thing I have ever wanted and more I loved him more then any thing when he left me it was the hardest thing I have ever had happen to me. So I know it’s hard losing the one you love but I all so know what your mom feels. I’m 17 so this isn’t a parent or older person giving you advice but from experience I can say that life has allot of unexpected twists some times for the better some times for the worst but we just have to take them. Now I am going to tell you how I felt when I was with my x who I loved and if you feel that way then I can believe you are in love.I had this good kinda sick feeling ,my heart was all ways beating fast ,I felt like dying when I wasn’t around him, when I would talk to him it was like I had no voice I tried to say stuff but I just couldn’t nothing would come out ,his voice was the only thing I wanted to hear ,his eyes just memorized me, his lips where so soft and made me feel all warm even if in actuality I was freezing , and just him being there made me feel warm . if you felt like that then I can believe you where / are in love but you had to have felt this before doing any thing sexual with him you see cause for some reason sexual intercourse / sex when it comes to teens specially girls it makes them think there in love trust me I know. I know this sucks but I mean really trust me you don’t want to end up a teen mom I know you may be pissed at your mom but shes saving you trust me even though it hurt’s you will get over it and once your older you will realize she did you one big f*cking fav . I wish my mother way so caring as to care about those thing’s your lucky trust me if you have any thing to say just tell me in my box K hope I helped

You are so young, as a mother, I will say that I would have been upset too if I found a note like that of my daughters.

You have to understand what that must have felt like to her, opening that letter and seeing what was written. No mother wants to find something like that of her young daughters. Give her time, of course she’s upset right now, things will cool down though.

OK, Im a young mother myself and once you turn into a mother everything changes you worry about your kids and try to stop them from making mistakes you made before they do them…Our job also is not easy shes just trying to protect you…Your young and if by any chance it is true love then you will find out. If he cant wait to have you then its not true love, Plus you dont want your mom not liking your boyfriends dont for get parents are forever and boyfriends come and go… Your just starting out take it from me live your life as a teenager because YOU CANT GO BACK AND CHANGE IT.! Hope I helped and good luck

Look ofcourse shes going to be mad…hell if it where my kid id be pissed…shell cool down. Just try not to leave your personal business written down somewhere were she can find it…look and your boyfriend not seing you isnt going to make him tired of you it will acually make him want to see you more…about the whole h.j thing if you think youre old enough to deal with the consoquences of doing that stuff then go ahead and do it…

RUN AWAY!!!