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my sis is always treateing my cruelly. last week we basically got into a fight in front of my school and she was hittin me. and now im trying to check up on sum info at school 'because 2day I have to go to a funeral and I was usin my space and she is not lettin me she is makin me mad and she always wants to see my page thats why I dont have a pic up can you tell me why she is bein evil or give me sum advice on how to handle this?
Dear hunigurl, nothing unusual there...a lot of siblings act this way. She is looking for your reactions and you are giving them to her. The only way to stop her behaviours is to ignore her...this will be the hardest thing you ever had to do. When she is being bad ignore her, when she is being nice make sure you tell her how much you like the way she is behaving. This is called behaviour modification...you change your behaviour and she will end up changing hers. If you follow through it is 100% guaranteed. Sue...good luck
Well hun this sounds horrible. I know 2 twin sisters who were like this from ages 13-16 but now their 17 and treat eachother like gold. I am sure you two will grow closer over time, sometimes it just takes a bit. Perhaps your sister is jealous of you? or maybe she is just going through hard emotional times and she is lashing out on you. . . Your sister does love you she just doesnt know how to show it properly right now but I wish you luck as well and am sure one day she will come around.
Well, You say she's 13 years older than you. I assume she's on her 20th. Right? If your parents are enable deal with the situation properly, I guess you're toasted. Your only hope is when she gets married, or you. Out of the records, doesn't she have anything else to with her life, I mean, other than bugging you? Good Luck
I'd talk to my parents about the situation (especially the hitting) or a have a trusted adult speak to her about this and settle things down...I wish you the best !!
my sis was 13 when I was born. I dont care how old she is now
What is the age difference between you and your sister?
