Why is my family so mean?

hmm…you seem to really love your boyfriend, I agree with mosesbewithyou sometimes its ok to break the rules its a part of life. as long as your doing nothing wrong go for it..:) hope I helped:)

tell your family you love him and nothing will keep you apart , nobody can or should tell you who you can or can’t be with , just ignore them when they talk bad about him

I agree with gurugl , tell your family to shut up , you love him , they shouldn’t be trashing him like that

tell your family that you love him for what counts and that’s all that matters in a relationship and tell them if they don’t like them well fine but I love him for what counts and you will not take that away from me.

your not allowed to see him?.. well sometimes you have to break a few rules in order to love who you want, I think how much you love someone can be seen by how hard you and him fight to stay together, and as for your family.. maybe they need to learn that true love isnt protecting the one you love, or holding them back.. sometimes it is stepping back and letting them go

if you want to see him then go see him (I know easier said then done) before school, in school, go against your parents and see him after school (I dont usualy suggest this but.. I’ve been there once) sneak out do what you have to do… no thats not right do what you WANT to do.. follow your heart :] even if it angers others.. even if you cry, never abandon your heart, keep your chin up no matter what and it will work out for better or worse

Allow me to ask you, please: Do you want to marry him and spend the rest of your life with him? If you don’t, then he is just one more of many guys that come and go while your family is the only one you have and will stick to you allways. You should try to see if all the effort to solve the problem is worth the while, . But if you really really LOVE him and he does you too FOREVER, that would be a completely different matter and would be apropriate to give you some advice. Try to see a litle further than just the spur of the moment. Thanks for your patience and sorry for being too frankly.