Would you tell?

Well if you were to cheat on your partner/boyfriend/girlfriend would you tell them?even if you knew they werent gunna find out? Could you live with the guilt? Its just a question Peeps =]]]

Answer #1

tell them! I cheated on my boyfriend when I was drunk. with a 20 year old! im so pissed at my self I mean im only 15. anyway I told my boyfriend and then I broke up with him because I felt like he was to good for me. we might date again but I dont really trust my self right now. that sounds really dumb but I mean its true. and if I cant trust my self then why should he trust me? can you honestly live with the guilt of cheating on someone and them not knowing. by the way I dont know how old you are- but things always get out. everyone always knows everything about every one. tell one tell them all. take the high road and deffinetly dont do it. but if you did all ready you cant take it back so tell them! if he loves you enough hell forgive you but it might take some time for him to trust you again. :)

Answer #2

welll um if I cheated and it was because I was druged or drunk I would tell her if I loved her but if I didn’t love her or trust her the guilt won’t effect me

Answer #3

Hey Irene! Yeah, here’s my take on it…The fact that you are asking means the thought is in your mind. wether or not you act out on it is irrelevant. you are obviously discontent with your current relationship and should concider breaking up with him. Besides, chances are this isnt the one he’s just training for the next relationship you’ll have during your life. So You can cheat but don’t tell him it will just hurt his feelings if you do. telling him if he’s not the one you’ll be with forever is pointless. it will just hurt and confuse him. I hope I helped. talk to you later

                                                          Jamie
Answer #4

First I would never cheat on anyone I was with…

But if you did decide to cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend, remember you can tell them and possible lose them forever or not tell them and they find out themselves and you lose them forever… Does it sound worth a little extra fun? if so then there isn’t much point in being in a relationship in the first place, you might aswell be single, then you don’t have to live with the guilt of the act…

Your choice at the end of the day, you can cheat and feel guilty or say No and be happy that you never thought of doing it…

Answer #5

Hey Jaime!Well it has nothing to do with my relationship its that someone asked me this question & I was rather shocked by their answer!But yea my relationship is fine & now I didnt cheat XD Lol thanks bunches Jaime!Message me sometime!

Answer #6

Lol, I wouldnt cheat. This may seem like a black and white way of looking at it, but if you love someone you dont hurt them in that way… However, I think if someone cheats, just once (say a really stupid mistake) and has no intention of doing it again. Regrets it, feels guilty all that, I dont think they should tell. Telling is doing it for their own sake, to make themselves feel better, if they cheated they need to deal with the guilt and not hurt their partner for no good reason…

Answer #7

mmm. I would wait a bit and see how things turn out. Then I would tell them. (ya never know things might turn out in my favour)

Answer #8

Omg people I DIDNT cheat its just a question geeze!lol

Answer #9

well everybody ALWAYS gets caught. but I wouldn’t tell

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