Why won't he propose?

Only your intended can answer this question. Perhaps he’s just not that into you. I never, ever thought I would use that phrase but it does seem to apply. You need to sit down with him and ask him to be honest about it. No matter what answer you get, do not freak out if it is the one you don’t want to hear.

He will tell you when the mood is right. I mean two years of true love he is coming out soon. Maybe a he hit a little bit of a rock with the ring or special dinner or room he made plans for.

well the truth of it is he IS that into me but i think he’s scared that i’m gonna say no although we have talked about it a lot he says he wants to get me the ring i want which is really expensive but in all honesty i don’t care how big how shiny or anything like that it just sounds fishy ya know

well my birthday is coming up so maybe he will then…that would be romantic and theres always the fireworks show on the fourth…the thing is we have been talking about it for almost six months because he is 28 and if he wants this we need to do it soon knwo what i mean

i can’t do that because i am too old fashioned and that would make him feel less of a man

It seems to me you wanna marry him now! Hehe, im kidding I know the feeling, but hey marriages ARE a big commitment for a guy to make, so why dont you just wait for it naturaly and maybe give him a little boost to give him the confident to ask you, if you really love him the wedding can wait right just as long as you two keep each other very happy and I doubt that those wedding bells arent going to ring soon :)

Awww, mindsets sets you both back a bit….. Well, the solution is wait until your boyfriend is ready and some guys will take forever to pop the question…Marriage is an massive commitment, once you get marriage hopefully there is not turning back and if you have big fights you can’t not see your partner like you do in a boy and girl friendship where you can ignore your man for days without feeling quilty……May I ask why the rush to get married? It is really only a paper. Most countries when you live with someone for more the 6 months, he law recognise a defacto relationships as the same as marriage, so if you break up, whoever has the money, you better watch out.

OMG, I’m so sorry about the typo….Geez I need to proof read and take my time before I hit the damn submit button…Sorry mate

Honey if you have talked about it a lot and he has stated that he is afraid you will say no, and you have reassured him you will say yes, so now its about the ring? One excuse after another? Feels to me like he really does not want to do it, which means……just not THAT into you. Men will never, ever tell you the truth about their feelings because we don’t like women’s reactions. There is something that he is not telling you, and/or himself, you need to find out what it is. Good luck