I've fallen for my brother's ex but she won't be with me...

the reason i started talking to her is because the way my brother was treating her. she showed him every respect and he treeated her like dirt. i couldnt stand by and let that happen so i started talking to her at first and the more i got to know her the more i realized that he didnt deserve her. i know i shouldnt have done what i did but she really is a wonderful person and shouldnt have treated like that. its my fault ive fallen for her but shes helped me throuogh alot and vice versa eventually we became close friends. i know she feels nothing for him and i just want to find out how she really feels about me with out compramising our relationship. id like to do it in a classy way, such as a picknick at a secluded spot and so on but im not sure what to do

Well first you should never ever choose anyone over family. Your number one priority here should be gaining a relationship with your brother again, becos he is your brother regardless and he should mean more to you. You have let this girl come between you and im sorry but your brother did the right thing in making her choose and never trusting you again! This girl sounds like a handleful and she has come between 2 brothers, that why she has pulled away she prob feels guilty and wont be able to be with you becos her ex is your brother and she wont be able to escape that. You need to pull away and give her some space to figure out what she wants to do now.

You should have never evenlooked at her like that knowing that she was your brother’s girlriend muchless to fall inlove with her.Any way I think you need to try and build back a honestrelationship with your brother because where trust is concern i know he wouldn’t have that for you after every thing and what if you find your self a girlfriend and grow to love her then your brother play back the game on you?.But I again I have to agree with Lacoluna.