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Help! I've fallen for his twin brother!

I’ve been seeing this young man on and off for two years now, and we tend to argue a lot anymore. Somewhere along the line, I realized I’ve fallen for his twin brother, who is also in a relationship. His twin brother is very mean to me though, I don’t know why he hates me. Anyway, what should I do about this? I love my boyfriend very much, but I cannot stop thinking about his brother.

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Well from personal experience myself brothers tend to dislike their brothers girlfriend’s especially if things are on the rocks between the two of you… Try taking a personal day or two to think things out and get to the root of your problems is it really the twin brother? after all when things start to get rocky in a relationship many times other men start becoming more interesting almost as if you are searching for an alternative to get away from the present problem…. Also if the twin is involved in a relationship he might feel awkward if he catches on to the fact that you like him not only will he feel awkward (after all you are dating his brother) he will probably also question you motives or intentions with his brother and take offense to you trying to pick up on him (a simple pointer siblings tend to be over protective especially when it comes to the person they’re dating). Also are you ready to throw two years of your life down the drain? Thats alot of time and energy you have spent on someone if you love him as you say you do try working things out. Maybe to get on the twins good side ask him for advice or even befriend his girlfriend but i wouldn’t step on any toes.

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