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it all started I met this guy, mike. we totaly hit it off. I was the new girl. we bacame close. but we never fooled around, I wanted to have sex with him.. beecause I was crazy about him.. I told him that.. (not in a whoreish way tho) and he got scared. and told me he didnt want to. and then we stoped talking.. for a while. I then started to see his younger brother brad. and I didnt know why I was really likeing brad until tonight, I took mike for a ride and told him.. that the reson I like brad is because he reminds me of mike, and this fact is true.. but in the past 2 weeks brad and I have became really close.. and being wiht mike again has gotten be very confuzed. and mike knows my situation and to top it off, he replays woudl you like to go on a date with me so yah know. the younger brother, is going through court and his stealing faze and drug faze. and the other brother has a kid. and trying to strighten up his life and im bettwen them both but I dont have a kid.. dooes anyone know what im saying here?

any advice at all please tell me.

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Answer #1

colethky is 100% right in this instance. Being caught in between two brothers is a very complicated and sticky situation. And yes, this could end up tearing them apart and it sounds like they have enough problems in their lives as it is (drugs, a child, etc). If you become entangled in a mess like this, you could do yourself more harm than good. If you truly care about these guys, you should wait until they have some stability in their lives before you get yourself involved.

Hope that helped!

Answer #2

Honestly…being in the middle of brothers is not a good thing. It could eventually tear them apart and you don’t want to be the cause of that.

The best thing for you to do would be to walk away from both of them since they both have feelings for you.

If you can’t do that then you need to be honest with both of them and decide who you want to be with. Then you need to tell the other guy before the one you want to be with. If he’s not ok with it then you’re going to be stuck in the middle again and as I’ve said that’s not a good place to be in.

Good luck :)

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