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MY BROTHER IS MAD AT ME !! FOR A STUPID REASON !

Ok so me and my brother’s best friend (Let’s call him Justin) had been fooling around for awhile ..Things started getting pretty serious and we started dating ..Eventually we told my brother and he was actually cool with it..But he said he had one condition that we not have sex because I’m 17 and Justin is 19 …So like last Friday Justin was over at our house and he and my brother were playing video games for like hours eventually he came to my room and we started making out during this he told me to get on top of him and we started dry humping (The covers were over us when my brother walked in and he totally freak..He hasn’t spoken to any one of us since then .. .. I feel like he is mad at me for no reason What should I do :/ ?

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Age has nothing to do with it a 17 dating a 19 year old is no big deal, only law makes it so. Emotionally and mentally they are a better match as research has shown that teen boys mature slower than teen girls do.

The reason that he got upset is more complex than that. It has to do with him having to process how weird he feels about seeing you in a different light. It is making him uncomfortable to see you having a sexual connection with his friend and he is also mad that you may end up taking his friend away from him. He needs to grow up and realize that you are your own person and almost an adult and not a little girl.

Relationship change and are dynamic. People date and find mates and priorities change. It’s all part of life. He will just have to get used to sharing his friend.

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