Wife tried things with past boyfriends that won't do with me. HELP

you married her knowing her past beleiving that you would get what her past lovers got and that was your fault for setting yourself up for a possibly disasterous marriage. deep down inside you’re freaky and her freak days are over. and now you are trying to bring two different polarities to come together and that’s not likely to happen so quickly, she doesn’t want you to see her as a freaky one so in this case you will need without a doubt another 10 years together with her before she wll begin to open up the way you want her to. If I were you I would go and buy a glass dildo and hide it untill she gets drunk and falls asleep, place the dildo in hot baby oil and slip it under the cover, she will feel it and respond but to her it will be a dream even when she wakes up she will still think it’s a dream. when she wakes up and realizes everything, you can bet the next night will be different and better for you both.

It’s not that she means to cheat you and hurt you, she just thinks your hideous looking and have a small penis. Also, you shouldn’t have been such a prude your whole life, you know the motto, snooze you lose. But worry not, just get a hooker for some std-filled fun!

I totally agree with this guy! I am still an adventurous guy and my wife agreed we would do some really adventurous things in our life. I’ve asked her to do anal, sex in the woods, car, etc…the answer is always the same “NO! I want to feel loved and not just wanted.” I try the romatic approach and then pursue these subjects again and am told “I just want to cuddle”. I find it funny that my wife can tell me every little thing she did to every guy and how she did it just for them and liked the thrill of getting them off; while at the same time telling me I am the only guy that has ever cared for her in or out of bed and got her off in bed. I feel cheated because I want to try these things but am not allowed to. And being this guy she loves and cares for so much, why won’t she let me while letting the slime balls in her past go two days straight with her trying what ever they wanted to.

Seems like a jip to me. I feel like I am her security blanket straighting out her life and kids while mine gets more and more boring, mondane, and hopless.

I know how you fell player, because sometimes my wife turns me down for sex, when she admitted to a one night stand in her past life. Now the key word here is “admitted” because women no matter how open they are with there schenanigans, still hold back from exposing all the secrets. Because of financial and legal repercussions, you may not feel so comfortable getting those desires outside your marriage. My best advice I can think of is to take control of your own sexual desires (aka dick discipline) which in essence would keep your energies focused on other hobbies. Maybe you take an interest in fishing, art, reading, working out or just playing dominoes with the fellas. But don’t put your wife on a pedastal, and thiese issues can be brought up matter of factly. Women do not respect guys they can control sexually.