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Help. Please. Cheating boyfriend.

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for 1 yr and 2 months. It has been great. We’ve had our tough times but nothing we couldn’t work out together. I just found out he’s been messaging this girl back and forth on myspace and they were talking about doing things to each other (sex). I broke up with him but he is begging me to give him another chance. He said he let his penis do the thinking and he is very sorry.

He deleted his myspace and facebook and the girls from his phone to show me he wants to give me all the attention and treat me right. But I can’t do it. I can’t get passed this. It hurts me so much.

What should I do? Give him another chance. I don’t think I can. He didn’t give our love a chance. He took a risk on our relationship and it blew up in his face. I’ve never done anything like that. Ever. There are so many good guys out there that would appreciate a girl to love them and when a guy gets a good person, he takes it for granted.

Please, I need advice. Thank you.

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Answer #1

Life is about learning from our mistakes. Maybe he will really learn his lesson, maybe he won’t take you for granted anymore, maybe he won’t ever break your trust again…can you take that chance? Would your relationship be worth it? Is he worth you? People are human and they make mistakes…there is nothing wrong with that, however when they keep doing it then it’s wrong. If you still love him then why not take it slow and see how it goes? It will be hard to trust him and you’re going to be hurt for awhile but try to remember that the past is just the past. You need to focus on the future and decide if you really want him around. Imagine a future where this kind of thing never happened again, would you be happy? Think about it. It’s your decision, but try to remember that sometimes it really is just a stupid mistake.

Answer #2

Your right, you shouldn’t give him another chance considering he broke your trust. But then again forgiveness is always good. You need to tell him that he has hurt you so much and nothing can take back that pain you’ve went through. I think you shouldn’t get back with him. He could do it again.. but you need a better guy that would never do that to you.

Answer #3

You should really take your own advice…>There are so many good guys out there that would appreciate a girl to love them and when a guy gets a good person, he takes it for granted.

Answer #4

in my opinion, I wouldnt even consider giving him a second chance. if he messed up so badly the first time and you forgive him and show him that you’ll just take him back, then think about what he might do again.

Answer #5

I agree with colethky when they say “life is about learning from your mistakes”. Your man deleted all that stuff from her and it seems like he wants to try again. I’d give him one more chance.. Everything happens for a reason.. Remember that too.

I hope I helped<3

Answer #6

In my opinon I dont think you should give him another chance because I think if he took a risk Befor then I dont think he will change. But I hope all is well for you. I hope I helped a little!(:

Answer #7

YOU SHOULDNT GIVE HIM ANOTHER CHANCE,IF HE LOVED YOU ENOUGH AND you MEANT THE WORLD TO HIM THEN HE WOULDNT HAVE DONE THAT!

Answer #8

IF you really want to get back with him, give him a chance but take it very SLOW. He has to earn your trust back. Some guys can change. They just need that woman to make them realize that life isnt about having sex with every woman who will give it to you. IF your heart isnt going to be into it then dont even bother because you will be wasting both of your times.

Answer #9

NO!!! noway

I cant believe your even thinking about it!!

but if its meant to be u’ll get back together in the future but for now dont even think about it.. it kills my life knowing my boyfriend did shiit wit a girl in the past, BUT IT WOULD KILL MORE if he cheated on me koz I’d give him anything he wants and if hes chasing someone else for the same thing its obvious he doesnt care about u, koz if hes getting it from you there no need to cheat

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