Why would he let he take the bear?

OK so my boyfriend gave me this teddy bear for chirstmas and I sleep with it every night and I love it and means so much to me. Today was pajama day at my school so I brought the bear with me. Third period came along and I gave him the bear for the period because I wanted to share it. at the end of the day he tells me that this girl who has been crushing on him and the girl that I hate took the bear and cuddled with it all period and my boyfriend didnt even try to get it back.. he just let her have it. This really hurt because it feels like hes just giving it to her… what should I tell him because it hurt a lot

Answer #1

WOW!! I know this was 13 days ago…first, did you get the bear back? and second…yah, sounds like a real jerk to me, you must have been really hurt.

Answer #2

Talk to him say that bear means a lot to me and I can’t believe you let some random girl. Who is crushing on you hold our bear be like does it mean anything to you or. Is just a useless thing? Let Him know how you feel and don’t hold back, trust me honesty is the key component in a relationship and if he were to break up with you because he thought you were being braty it is good for you because it just brings you one step closer to finding the right guy and if he really likes you he will realize what he did wAS wrong and he won’t think your being braty at all.

Answer #3

my advice dump him. I bet that if you ask the girl >> she will tell you that he never mentioned it was your bear, and if she doesnt know he is your boyfriend > he probably didnt clarify it. and was probably flirting with her!!!

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