Why wont my girlfriend let me touch her?

I’ve been with her for 2 and a half years, and we used to hug, kiss, but never more, much to my disdain, but now, she wont even let me touch her, even place a hand on her shoulder, let alone hug, I dont understand? Why does she act like this?

Eg, I was with her, my friend, her friend, and ofcourse myself, ice skating. She said she was cold, so I offered to warm her up (u know, rub my hands onto her arms, ect) but she said no, then my friend, who she neither knows nor really likes that way, comes up, offers the same thing, and she lets him? I dont get it.

Answer #1

maybe you should just dump her. x

Answer #2

She may be considering leaving you which is why she wont let you touch her at all. Or quite possibly she did something behind your back and cant quite take the guilt if you care about her try and talk to her about it.

Answer #3

You need to find a new girl fast! Notice I said girl, not girlfriend. Get out there and meet as many fun women as you can, seal the deal early, don’t get too attached too quickly, and move on to the next one. Experience as many different types of women as you can and overall you will know exactly what type of person you want for the long term.

Answer #4

Time to find a new girlfriend.

Answer #5

shes going to dump you I did the same as her

Answer #6

ii actually agree with youu th makes no sense at all she doesnt let you do it adnd lets your friend hu she barely noes LIKE WHTHEEE im onlyy 14 and I let ,my boyfriend do that, ii guess that shes starting to “disengage” with youu… its time to find a new girlfriend!

Answer #7

Well have you ever considered just sitting down with her face-to-face and asking her with the problem was?Some girls like there space after a long relationship with two years.But I still dont see that she has to act like that then let alone another guy touch her and he’s not even her boyfriend but all you can do is just talk to her and try to understand where she is comming from.Becuase imma say to you what my mother always said to me dont help anyone in a relationship if they dont wanna commit and that seems what she is doing or you need to ask her if one of her friends told her something about you that you know wasnt true but still all you can do is talk to her and nothing more sorry for the way she is acting.STAY BREEZY :P

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