Why won't he ask me out!!!?

Okay. This guy I’ve liked since last year is one of my friends. not really my CLOSE friends, but we can always rely on eachother kind of friend. there isn’t very many sweet, patient, honest and caring guys at my school, and he marks the spot! So at the first dance of the school year, I told him how I felt about him… of coarse, he did not feel the same way… I knew I had it coming, but I needed to tell him, and get him out of my system. we grew apart I forgot about him, and didn’t talk to him much anymore. it was kinda easy, there are few times in the day we see eachother. He was out of my head, well, at lease 4 a while. I don’t know what happened to him, whether he noticed as everybody else has, that I am letting my natural curls down, and wearing my makeup well [thanks to my best friend =)] he has been paying close attention to me. Such as it appears he goes in awe whenever I pass him in the hall, can’t take his eyes off me. Even when he is talking to his best friend, he keeps his eyes on me. not that ‘’check out the hottie’’ look her up and down stare. but an admiring, distant but so close eye contact. And as every girl would feel, I felt beautiful and special. Especially when he began following me. he is not creepy or scary at all, although every guy knows not to mess with him,its a very protective following. often before school starts I talk to my friends, and he is with his, he moves singularly to a location where he can keep an eye on me. This all started the same time when he waited for me at my bus. he usually hangsout with his friends untill when he has too leave, then goes to his bus which is directly opposite of mine, the bus loop is the shape of a U. It happened only twice. I ofcoarse fell head over heals for him. then he began confusing the hell out of me when he never asked me out. I mean, does all of his actions mean he is interested? I need help on this one, I don’t know if I can take another month of this.

Answer #1

chryz, I have been smiling, very big for him. and smiling that big was out of my hands. lol and for your fisrt question, I don’t believe anyone else has been paying attention. atleast not like him. and I beleive he does not have a girlfriend. but ofcoarse I’m a bit too shy to ask him.

vivrose23, could you pleaseexplain to me more about that last sentence. lol I’m an airhead, I know

thank you both 4 your help!

Answer #2

I agree with rose.. But is there anyone else paying attention to you because of this change? Does the guy you like have a girlfriend? Well I think the next time you see him staring at you give him a wink and half smile, if he approaches you after that then you’ll know for a fact that he likes you. If you don’t want to wink just give him a little smile and half wave maybe he’s just waiting for you to give him a sign. you know boys are much worse at dealing with rejection…

Answer #3

I think you should slowly rekindle your friendship with him first, and then you’ll get more clues as to whether he likes you or not, and he’d probably feel a lot more comfortable asking you out. maybe he doesn’t want to admit it now because he said no before, and that would be superficial now that you’ve changed?

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