Why should sex not be scary?

calm down sex isnt that scary if you do it with the right person and you feel your ready some womens first time will hurt, others wont feel any pain some women are also born without a hymen but for the ones that have it, it often gets broken by things like masturbating, fingers, sex toys, tampons, horse riding, bicycle riding, aggressive sports and exercise so your hymen can be broken long before you have sex for the first time and not many people are great in bed the first time they have sex either, it usually comes with practice

also remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and/or get stds is because of a lack of sex education and only do it when your 100% ready and comfortable with the person your doing it with

sex is always scary the first time, but you will know when its the right guy. it wont hurt if your calm. if your all tense obvvv its gonna hurt because the muscles are contracted.

dont worry, you wont be scared if you do it with the right person. well maybe a little scared but more like excited, and nerv ous at the same time. wait for the right one, u’ll know, you don’t have to lose it to just anyone. and be safe…u know, use birth control and condoms when you start.

well you will feel scared because you have never done it. and it is a scary feeling for girls because theres much more consequences like getting preggers. But if you do it with the right guy and you dont feel pressured it will be fine. You might have already tore you hymen or some people say you can tear it yourself by fingering yourself . And People that are good in bed are the ones that enjoy it and your partner nows you enjoy it.

good luck x

it barley hurts and theres almost no blood and one the guy thrusts like three times it feels really good but your mind messes wit you when your about to do it because you think its gonna hurt dont worry it dosnt

On my first time it was really scary my legs were shaking and it does hurt but not where your screaming your head off lol I didnt bleed but some girls do, its apparently only I few drops, & on your first time it doesnt matter weather your good or bad, obviousley the person you’d be doing it with isnt going to make you take the lead, the lie back relax and make sure you trust the partner whom your loosing your verginity too, remember condoms! make sure your ready! xxx