is sex scary the first time?

ok well…I’ve never had sex obviously and im nervous about my first time. my boyfriend wants to, but im worried about like getting pregnant even though im on birth control and he would use a condom…im still worried. is this normal?…or am I overly freaked out?…im also body concious uno…like im afraid he’ll be grossed out or something if he sees me naked because he hasnt before…he says that he wont be but im still nervous. I dunno I might be stupid but yea just please give me some advice like really soon. thank you!

Answer #1

I was scared the nite I lost it. but don’t be scared of your body because he really cant judge u. and da 1 ? you wna ask is if he lykd it daz da main one but you gna like it

Answer #2

I was more excited than scared my first time. When I went on Birth Control I was always paranoid that it wasn’t working even though I took the pill at the same time religiously and never took anything that interfered with it. Once you’re on it a while and Aunt Flo comes regularly you grow confidence in it. And naked bodies are beautiful!

Answer #3

First of all, your first time is usually scary, its normal to be nervous, but as long as you do it when YOUR ready. Aslo, he wont be grossed out when he sees you naked. I know your very self concious but you’ll get used to it. i was the same way. I was terrified to have sex and even more terrified to be seen naked. Just go with the flow and enjoy the process. Dont stress about how you look or what he thinks, without a doubt he will be drooling over you. Just make sure your ready. With birthcontrol pills and a condom you wont get pregnant if they’re used properly.

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