Why is the vagina of my fiance loose and open?

hmm your rite because yes she has vehemently denied all allegations we engage in phone sex too so for some who has not had any seuxal experience she surely knows a lot but says she makes it all up herself but yes in masturbation herself she had been quite a noob. bbut her knowledge bout other stuff is like in my theory the details you can never know that much unless uve experienced it-if you dun know shit you cant make up da exact shit..but yes she stil nn always claims shez untouched and pure so mostly ikeep it to myself wt I think bout it cz else she fights and gets upset and stuff-n wow rite nw, she went so like idun know that she ended up delting all da stuff all memories blocking me and stuff cz she told me not to bring dis labia shit agan im suspecting her, and we were at breaking point whn she finaly kooled down and den we realized hapily that it wz all in da sent folders.I dont know wuts happening and wts true

I dont know man its realy screwin my head :’( cause its a big deal in our culture and religion. I love her so much and vice versa I try to keep thinking that your marrying her and not her vagina and I fell better but not having a good explanation for it is the thing which is bothering me. The obvious one is yes she has had it. imean when I saw it iwas actually shocked. Another improtant thing is that she has been able to take 2 fingers in at times and she says : 1= idont like it 2= its uncomfy (ithink) but nevertheless she has taken dem and 2 fingers has been done at the most 8- 10 times for sure. or maybe less. and she has been fingering for 4months now and hasnt masturbated before that ever and ibelieve that . But first she agreed to get it chekd by a doc as to why is it large or sumthing but now she gets kinda pissed and says she doznt have to do prove anything to anyone cause she knows she hasnt..HELP!! :(

Alrighty… you’ve shed light on the ACTUAL problem in your relationship…

…T…R…U…S…T…

You don’t have any. Whether she’s lying to you or not, YOU DON’T TRUST HER, and you won’t let this issue go.

Trust is essential. Without it, a relationship will end in failure. So go ahead and end the relationship.

well if its important in your culture she stays a virgin shes def gonna lie if shes a virgin or not. cus if its important to stay a virgin she will say she is no matter what she doesnt want to feel low or dirty or bad

either that or her vagg looks like that not all va jays look the same… on porn or in real life they are all different

I dont know man its realy screwin my head :’( cause its a big deal in our culture and religion.

…aaannnd… looking at lots of pornography is NOT a big deal in your culture and religion?

and yes she is uber shy and because of long distance and me forcing and convincing her for special pix and clips she always wants me to delete it and stuff and naggs me bout it…is that any gud indication??:D

imeant culturalyy its a big deal for the FEMALE especially if she doesnt bleed or something or if her vagina looks that way then the guy goes bananas and girls usually end up divorced or worse cause ov the notion that not bleeding means she aint a virgin..I said that generally. ok so I did some more research and I kinda agree with both so now I feel a bit better ahem:$ but hey dun blame me even she dint know nuthin bout it =/ just wanted an explanation nuthing else http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/clitoral_and_labial_size.htm umm dis was vry infromative and shit man people realy need to know dis shit because its a big problem anywayz thanx a lot both of you and no need for the hostility woman.cheers:)

Two possible explanations:

1. She’s lying…

OR

2. She’s not lying, and that’s just the way it looks. The external appearance of a woman’s vagina doesn’t necessarily reflect her sexual experience. Some women have large labia, some don’t. Some labia get larger thru sexual experience and child birth, some don’t.

HINT (If she can only fit 1 finger in, before it becomes uncomfortable, that’s a fair indicator that a penis hasn’t been in there.)

How many virgin vaginas have you inspected? Maybe you should be less paranoid, and stop using pornography as a template for your real world experiences.

Alright.. you’re an idiot who obviously knows nothing about the female anatomy. It looks that way because that’s the way she was born, fuckhole. What you see in porn is not what all girls look like in real life. it’s not the same for every girl down there, just like it’s not the same for every guy. Stop being so psychotic and get over it, she’s not sleeping with anyone. You’re lucky she’s with you man, you sound kind of insane.