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Why is my church youth picking favorites?

We went on a youth trip I had fun because of the ministries and band. My favorite christain band was there I have always wanted 2 meet them personnally he told everyone he was gonna sign autographs the youth told me I can’t go. Then the youth leaderwas throwing grapes in the middle of the night with the kids she said if I did that I would get in trouble. then she told me I’llwake you up at 8 2morrow she woke me up at 6 then I told her I wanted 2 be in my friends group she said ok then 5 minutes later she put me in her group. then we got youth shirts I asked if I could get autographs on the shirt she said no my friend asked she said yes, then I asked if I could go back 2 the hotel room she said no butr yet she told the other girls yes why is she picking favorites I’m not a rebel at church so what should I do.

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Answer #1

ask your friends if they notice that she is doing that. she dosent sound like a very nice person. are you sure there isnt anything you have done to upset her? maybe you could calmly ask her if you have upset her in any way, if she plays innocent, I suggest you find a new youth group. youi don’t have to put up with this. it will just upset you and thats not what youth groups are about!

Answer #2

Talk to your minister. Sounds like the youth leader is being petty and not very Christian.

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