Why is my boyfriend doing this when he knows I dont want it?

Hi everyone my boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. I really really love him but he wants sex. I dont . He would come into my room and would start feeling me up trying to get his hands down my pants. He is 17 and im 16 I dont know what to do anymore because he wont listen but I dont want to break up with him what do you think I should do ?? Thank you xx

Answer #1

don’t let make feel that way like you don’t know to anymore or uncomfortable there are plenty of things you can like this tell him to stop pressing you into something you don’t wanna do or dump him if he does not stop,because he was is so and he’s pressuring you at that don’t put up with it

Answer #2

sorry I am tellin you my opinion if he’s feeling you and u’ve said you don’t want him to it sounds like sexual assult. If your boyfriend is only focused on having sex with you even though you have made it clear you don’t than say I don’t want to so stop pushing me or where over I’ll do it when I am ready. If he still pushes than click the switch DUMP HIM!! You could find someone way better that will respect your wishes

Answer #3

So, what you’re saying is that this guy who is supposed to love and protect you is making you really uncomfortable and is pressuring you for something you are not ready for? I understand you love this guy. But I want you to seriously sit down and think about who it is you love. Because odds are the guy you love is not real. The guy you love is one who cares about you. And would not hurt you. And respects you. And would never ever molest you (yes that is what he is doing). And if that isnt the guy you love, then you need to sit down and figure out why your self-esteem is so low that you believe you deserve to be treated this way and it is ok for someone to disrespect you like this. Because it is not ok. And not all guys are like this.

Answer #4

If he doesn’t respect you enough to not do that when you say no, then you really deserve better than him. You’ve tried talking to him and he won’t stop, so I honestly think that you should break up with him.

Answer #5

dont be a mug and end it with him. obviously your not comfortable in this relationship or you would have had sex by now. maybe you should date a priests son or something. or just tell him exactly how you feel and if he dont understand then you shouldnt be with him. thats the best advice youll get.

Answer #6

just tell him your not ready or comfortable with it yett.

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