Why is it everyone will not stop mocking my personal lifestyle?

You’re really just upsetting yourself at this point. First of all, EVERYONE? Really. The entire planet is mocking you? Lets narrow it down, is every single person you’ve ever met mocking you? Or how about every single person you interact with? No? How about the majority of people? Do they mock you? There’s a few people who call you names. That’s not everyone. And calling you a hermit is really just to annoy you. I hardly think it qualifies as mocking.

Now for your brother. You’re talking about a sibling. The more you show him that this bugs you, the more he’ll do it. I mean that is just basic sibling stuff. If it wasnt this, he’d come up with something else. So what if he calls you a hermit? A hermit is someone who enjoys to spend time on his own. It’s really only an insult (really this could be said of anything) if you allow it to be. The word in itself doesnt mean much. Think about that. I’d analyze why this is bugging you. A lot of times things bug us because we fear they’re true or what it would mean if it were true. So what if you like spending time alone?

You have more control over your friend. If my friend was being purposefully hurtful, he would either stop very quickly because it wasnt something I’d tolerate, or he wouldnt be my friend for much longer…

Now. Knowing that you are afraid of dogs, are you saying your parents purposefully plotted against you because they just wanted to upset you? Seriously?

Let’s try not to see the entire world as your enemy. Life is very difficult when we think ‘everyone’ is out to get us.

Considering you live with a dog, perhaps it is one phobia you should try and work to overcome. It’s your life and you dont want to change it? You dont have a choice. You live with your parents and so you have to deal with the changes they bring. You have two choices. You can fight this. And live in fear and be miserable. Or you can work to overcome your fear. And be happy and not live in fear. It’s your choice. If you prefer to be unhappy but find comfort in self-righteousness, well it’s up to you…

Well, have you ever thought that maybe they thought that getting a dog might help you get over your fear of dogs, which is really irrational? Also, who cares? People make fun of me as well, they do it for a reaction, don’t give them one and they won’t bother. This really isn’t complicated, and I think that you are making it into a bigger issue than it is.

You cant please everybody.

There are people who judge there are people who like you fo who you are. So you do what you do not the whole world has to like it right.

My best advice is to just move on and keep on going. You are maling this a little more complicated than it should be.

spending all your time on games is not good for your health, go out and socialize, you will regret it late in your life :)

Wow. You sound like my brother. I’m not judging you or anything, but my brother spends most of his life playing games. We just moved into a house, and he hasn’t been outside yet just because. I mean, yeah, I’m usually on the computer, but I know when to get off and go outside or something, or just walk around. But that’s you, and your family needs to leave you alone.

@kimxxx

Thanks for that. That means a lot and probly just what I needed to hear. Or read in this case. lol