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my bro is so f*cking stupid! why does he have to get in my personal life! so im not supposed to have a girlfriend but I have one any way (I dont care) and so he reads over my shoulder and reads my texts. what can I do to make him stop being stupid.
He's not being 'stupid', he's looking out for you. Its better to have a brother thats interested in your life than having one that doesn't care at all.
You could try telling him to back-off a bit, just explain that you need your space. If he still doesn't give you space, you could ask your parents to talk to him. If that doesn't work, then text alone in your room or out of the house. Don't give him the opportunity to butt in, but don't keep him totally isolated or he will try even harder to be in your life. Share things with him, but make sure YOU chose what you share.
He's just being a brother. Don't take it the wrong but he's just being a big brother like he's supposed to be. Yes he doesn't have to be all in your business. You need your space. Im positive if he had an older sibbiling all in his personal life. He would feel how your feeling. Just talk to him share SOME things not all and im sure he will back off and RESPECT your life.
my big sis did that too just tell him hes not your dad and you dont have to listen to him when he reads over your shoulder just tell him to mind his own buis.
