Why is everyone doing it when their my age?

Seriously, I keep coming on here and I see posts saying “I did it and Im 14” and things along those lines… I am 14 (just turned it) and I feel like me not being sexually active is a bad thing! I dont know why I feel this way. but I dont want to…

Answer #1

sweetie, I think it’s wonderful that you have not had sex yet. you are only 14, still a baby practically, no offense. it takes a lot of courage and determination to be a virgin at your age in this society now a days, I think you’re splendid. don’t feel bad, feel honored.

Answer #2

:D thank you all so far.

Answer #3

im fifteen and a virgin. at first I felt like im the only one not having sex but it really just depends who you hang around, I got a new group of friends that also feel they shouldnt have sex at such an early age and now im very proud that im a virgin!

its all up to you, but I think its wonderful you’re still a virgin!!

Answer #4

ells I like the way you thinking. keep it up!!

I am 20 and haven’t had sex yet, so is my boyfriend. we have been dating for 2 and a half years and he is totally cool cause he respects me and has never pressured me!!. I was also shocked at all the people having sex at such and early age on here. (I was basically still a child at 13 and 14).

Also I think its GREAT that you havn’t had sex yet. Believe me waiting is the best thing that you can do, it will make it all that more special and in also being more mature when you do it you’ll be able to deal with any other possible consequences in an adult matter.

Answer #5

naw dats nt a bad thing just wait until you KNOW that your ready

Answer #6

hey being a virgin’s not a bad thing but if they want to lose their virginity its up to them. its their body. I mean I have this friend allexis and shes going to be 13 in february and she wants to like have a sex party. help me if you have a ny advice on trying to stop her. she WANTS to lose her virginity to some random guy and goes around bragging saying she’ll be more expeiienced then evryone else. I think that itsjust plain nasty. any advice on stopping her. funmail me if you have any ideas. if you want to post a comment, I dont care just help!! xoxoTina

Answer #7

hey girl im 15 there is no need to be sexually active. I plan on waiting until im at least with a guy that I really love or when I’ll be able to take care of a situation with pregnancy!

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