Why doesnt my my dad like me wearing makeup?

ok, I wear makeup to scholl sometimes (eye makeup) and usually I only wear mascara and occasionally eye shadow and my dad just goes off on me about it if he sees me wearing any makeup. I know how to put on mascara and all the other types I wear so why does he make such a fuss about it? its not like I dont know how to put makeup on without stabbing myself in the eye. I can actually do a pretty good job with my makeup to make my eyes stand out so why does he think its such a bad thing??? its not like im doing drugs or anything, so why does he have such a problem with it??? also, if its necessary, my dad isnt the kind to give up easilly

Answer #1

If I were you I’d just talk to him. Explain why you want to wear makeup and explain that you’re not going to wear too too much. You can tell him you’d just like to experiment with makeup and that that’s not going to change anything. If he still acts the same after that then just keep doing what you’re doing right now and soon enough he’ll get over it.

Answer #2

I dont think I am. my dad allowed me to wear makeup last year. just the only prob was I didnt have any. now that I do he thinks that a really ligth gray eye shadow it overdoing it and that my wearing makeup is disrespectful to him. HOW!?!

Answer #3

You are only 13, it’s understandable for your parent to think /responsibly/. Do you think at all? It’s so easy to figure out that your parent couldn’t care less about you applying it badly or stress themselves about the possibility that you could stab yourself in the eye. They just don’t want you growing up too fast, which you are doing.

Answer #4

My dad was the same way, he probably just thinks that since your wearing make up your growing up and he doesn’t want his little girl growing up. Oh and I always used to put on the makeup at school. usually by the time I got home and he got home it was all gone.

Answer #5

Well just ask him why he does not want you to ware make up. Tell him that you are not going to over do it . How old are you ? Tell him that you respect his choice and would like to know what age for him is acceptable to ware make up. I’m sure you have a pretty face so why would you even want to ware make up. I’m 23 with two children and a baby on the way and I dont ware make up. Yours truly, Demika Ray

Answer #6

Well, its probably because beginning to wear make-up is one of the first signs for him that you are growing up and most dads do not like that… Trust me, my dad was the exact same way. Don’t worry, though, its just a phase and he will get over it soon enough. And if not… well explain to hhim that you wearing a little make-up doesnt change who you are and it definately doesnt change the relationship between the two of you… only say that as a last resort, though, because it can sometimes get a awkward talking about that kind of stuff with your dad… xD anyways, for now, just wear it and dont let your dad’s outbursts freak you out.

Answer #7

ahh same juust put it on .. mayte but like he would probabley do this to say that lipstick used to mean agerws ago snog me mi lips are nice but its totaly differnt now juust do it get him to get ovet it x ! ? x

Answer #8

for the time being I’ve been putting it on on the bus and then wiping it off when I ride the bus home

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