Why does she tell me she wants to be together but act different?

I met this girl about 3 months ago. She tells me she wants to be together and that she loves me but when I try to spend time with her she either cancels or ignores me. When I text her I will rarely get a response and then when I just give up and tell her that this isn’t working and we should just be friends, she freaks out and tells me she wants me and doesn’t want me to go away.

My theory is that if you want someone, you go after them and try and make it work. She introduces me to all her friends, tells people I’m her boyfriend and introduces herself to all my friends. I spoke to her 2 days ago and the last hing I said was that I didn’t want her to push me away cause I want to be with her and I love her, but I dont think she wants to be with me, she responded with she does want to be with me and I dont know what im talking about…I haven’t heard from her in 2 days now. Why is she ignoring me? Is she lying about loving me and wanting to be together?

Answer #1

I think she’s just one of those spoiled girls that don’t appreciate what they have and when they see it going away they don’t wanna let it go but later just go back to being their spoiled self again. you need to have a serious talk with her and make her know that if she doesn’t start treating you like her boyfriend and you’re really going to end it and when she realizes she really loves you it just might be too late.

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