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Why does my Boyfriend want me to have sex with another dude ?

My Boyfriend of 2.5 years has been telling me that he would like to see me have sex with another guy, whlie he sits there and watches. I really don’t know what to think of it. Is this Normal ? and should I do it ?

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Answer #1

its not normal, no but it doesnt autimatically make him a freak and means he doesnt love you its a fetish/fantasy and its actually one that quite a few guys have even some girls have it if your not comfortable with it obviously explain this to your partner im sure he’ll understand and wont pressure you into it or anything lots of people have fantasies and fetishes, but sometimes some of them are better not to be acted out

Answer #2

I wouldn’t say that it’s not normal, but it isn’t something you’d normally experience. It’s more of a fantasy type of thing, you know?

In any case, you should only do what you personally feel comfortable with. If you don’t want to have sex with another man - don’t. Talk to your partner about it and let him know why you would not like to. If you DO want to try it, though, talk to your partner about it and discuss the details. (Who, what, when, where, how many times, etc.)

Only do what you’re comfortable with, though.

Answer #3

What a freak, no that is not normal. At least to me this seems like a guy that doesn’t love you. Maybe he wants to have sex with another woman that’s why he wants you to have sex with another guy then when you do he’ll be like ok now it’s my turn. Look if your comfortable with doing something like that go for it but don’t let him force you into doing something you don’t want to do.

Answer #4

No honey, that is not normal, but some guys like that. I don’t understand it but they do. If you aren’t comfortable with it then don’t do it.

Answer #5

give a kick on his back dear

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