What should I do if my boyfriend wants to have sex and I'm unsure?

I am 16 and my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. It is a long distance relationship and he is coming to see me in 2 weeks and is expecting to have sex but I’m a virgin and he is very experienced and he seems to expect that we are going to do it. I don’t know what to do.

Answer #1

your obiously not readyso tell him that if he loves and respects you he will respect your decision and will wait untill your ready if he pressures you for sex or threatens to break up if you dont or anything else that makes you feel like you have to do it he doesnt love you or respect you and just wnast to use you for sex so tell him your not ready if hes a good guy, he’ll be patient and wait ifhe isnt, dump him

Answer #2

I don’t think your first time should be with a long distance relationship I think you should tell him how you feel if you do or don’t want to have sex with him

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