Why does my boyfriend look at other women online?

well from a mans point of view you need to understand that most men find it awkward to engage in sexual intercourse with a pregnant woman because they feel like their gonna poke the kid or something lol its perfectly normal for him to …find other releases ie (masturbation) and you should be kinna happy hes not cheating on you because if he was he wouldnt be looking at porn and if you took a pole for how many boyfriends look at porn you would get about 1 or 2 in 100 and combine that with men that dont run out on a pregnant woman your looking at like .375 in 80 so I just think your over reacting no offence im just trien to help

he doesn’t love you.

I caught by boyfriend in the ACT! That sucked! Long story short I was embarrassed for him so I casually sat on his lap and said come on we’ll finish up in the room. He said NO! had a cig and went to bed! I was PISSED! After that I’ve found it a few times on his pc even 20 minutes after we’ve has sex. He’s all about equality so I thought in my head well if he has a visual need he needs to satisfy I as a woman have an emotional need I need to satisfy so I decided to start flirting. It emotionally satisfies me and makes me feel desired and wanted. Mind me you, my boyfriend is not really expressive, weeks will go by and I won’t hear a ‘your beautiful’ or anything! Im not conceded but I am hot, I am called jlo and halle at my job by numerous customers and I am the most down to earth chick you’ll ever meet. What can we do, they’re pigs and we just got to take the good with the bad. Good luck

He may love you, but conditionally, not unconditionally. And he doesn’t respect you.

You need to tell him (clearly, firmly, but not angrily) how much it hurt you. Tell him that he needs to stop, because it makes you feel like crap. Don’t make a threat unless you’re willing to follow through. If you say, “you’d better stop or else” and he doesn’t stop but you don’t do anything, then he’ll know that your threats are empty and he won’t care about what you have to say anymore. Just know that you still have the freedom of choice, and if you don’t want to or feel like you can’t deal with it anymore, then you have the right to leave him.

Just remember that either decision you make will have consequences, as is the way of life.

You’re probably an attractive girl, and there would probably be a handful of guys who would love to hold you in their arms and treat you right. So, why put up with one who won’t?

The reason that his looking at porn is wrong, is because he has you and YOU should be ENOUGH. NO MATTER WHAT. He needs to fill all his desires and fantasies with you and you alone. Because when he doesn’t, it pretty much sends the message that you’re worthless to him in that area. It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, but it sure shows that he doesn’t respect you enough to keep you the ONLY ONE, and that he doesn’t see you as measuring up to his ideals or standards.

Try and find help for him, or for you. Go to a counselor, or check out helpful websites online. If he truly loves you, he’ll be willing to make a change. And it would be the best for the both of you. By looking at porn he’s not only hurting you, but himself as well… You won’t be able to trust him the same way ever again, unless he tries really hard to earn it back. And you may act like it doesn’t bother you, and hide it deep inside, but in reality it’s always been there and always will be… the pain of it all.

If he truly tries to make it up to you, forgive him and work it through if you love him. Just know this one thing, if anything else, THERE IS HOPE. Don’t ever give up HOPE.

Your boyfriend looks at porn, eh?

waits

checks watch

coughs

…And?

From everything you’ve said, I don’t see that he’s doing anything wrong. He’s engaging in harmless fantasy, not trying to cheat on you. The only reason he’s being so secretive about everything is because you keep getting upset about it, and he’s now being forced to cover his tracks to both protect your feelings and protect his right to masturbate to whatever the hell he wants to. Looking at your friends in their bathing suits might hit a little closer to home as these are ‘’real’’ women, but it’s not as if your friends posted them and didn’t expect them to be ogled.

As long as you and your boyfriend have a strong relationship built on trust, respect, and communication, there’s no reason why his looking at porn, a perfectly normal and healthy release, should affect you in any way. If it bothers you to know he does it, stop checking his history every five minutes. It bothers me to watch my girlfriend taking out her tampons, and so you know what I don’t do? I DON’T barge into the bathroom every five minutes in the mornings when she’s on her ‘’delicate cycle.’’ Stop snooping.

leave. I’m JUST like you on how I feel about my boyfriend looking at porn. if he cares about me he will respect my wishes for him NOT to look at porn. I don’t care what anyone else says about the situation, I know QUITE a few guys that would be more than happy to give up looking at porn if it meant their girlfriend would stay.

my boyfriend got caught looking at porn a few months ago, and trust me he will never be doing that again. I had told him time and time again that I didn’t want to catch him looking, and then I found him doing so, and now he knows WHY I said not to. I started packing my stuff, called my mother to take me home, and told him to f**k off. I don’t play around. ever since then if he needs something he asks me if I’ll help him out. if he doesn’t have me around, I take naughty pictures, or we make a video or two, and he looks at that. it still does things for him, but it’s ME.

you’re boyfriend sounds like a total jerk. if he says he won’t then he better not.

maybe he is looking at stuff he is interested at and he wants u to try it