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Why does he want to eat me?

Okai so theres this guy I reallli like and he really likes me. We’ve been talking for a while now and he wants to give me something. The other day he said he wanted to make love to me but I told him even though im not a virgin im not down for sex. So he asked me if he can go down instead and I told him I would get back to him. So what do I do because I never let a guy go down before im scared because I dont know what im supposed to do if im supposed to do anything and like hows it going to feel and should I have sex with him after he does it to like return the favor because I dont give oral.

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Answer #1

I agree with some of what who said, you should never feel obligated to give something back! Never! Only do whats gonna make you comfortable. And no worries if you decide to let him do his thing all you have to do is sit back and enjoy it. You don’t need to do anything and you don’t need to feel obligated to give something back. If he ends up wanting something back, it just means that was what he was after all along. That wasn’t exactly part of the question I wanted to answer, lol. Your a lil young but when your young and have a question getting an actual answer is nice and often needed. Just don’t do anything you’ll regret, if your not sure don’t do it! It means your not ready and if he is really into you, he will respect whatever you decide. Best of luck to ya!

Answer #2

Just because you don’t give oral doesn’t mean you can’t give him a handjob. And you don’t have to even let him do anything. In my opinion it is wrong to do anything sexual with anyone besides kissing if your not actually in a relationship with him. Also, don’t be so willing to have sex with him just because you think you have to give him something back. Make a wise choice, think about it and don’t do anything you’ll regret. Feel free to fun mail me <3

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