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Why does boyfriend says he doesnt want kids but doesnt use condoms?

I dont want kids and my boyfriend says that he doesnt either. He knows im not on birth control yet, but he still wants to have sex even when we dont have a condom. We’ve slipped up a few times but after a scare I always tell him no now when we dont have a condom. But he still doesnt seem to care. What does that mean?

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Answer #1

I would make sure he is really not up to something. He really might want a kid with you.

Answer #2

Agreed with simply. Sooner or later, he’ll start to realize that sex is an act between TWO people, not just a way to satisfy his libido. You are doing the 100% right thing by insisting on protection if you don’t want to have children. Stick to your guns, and if he continues to pressure you, it’s a good indicator that he’s not the respectful boyfriend you thought he was, giving you ample reason to dump his selfish behind.

On a personal anecdote – my friend’s sister’s husband also hates wearing condoms. He claims he’s ‘’allergic.’’ The result? They have two accidental children and are living in his parents’ basement because all their money is going towards raising two accidental children.

Answer #3

That means that he’s very irresponsible and selfish. He’s acting on his desires and doesn’t care about the consequences you will both have to face if you get pregnant.

If he’s not willing to make responsible decisions when having sex, you shouldn’t have sex with him. If he wants it bad enough, he’ll start caring.

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