Why do parents think that if they mess up with one child...?

Well your perents want to know if they are doing something wrong, they have learned from their mistakes and they don’t want to make onother one.

If a first child is on drugs ( for example) and he/she is now ruined for life the perents are ganna keep that second child secure and the best they can to keep them away from making the same mistake as the other kid. Meaby talk to them and let them know that you are feeling a little pressure to be perfect. But if your older sibilings made a mistake also keep yourself from making them too.

Wow, I always thought that the oldest gets more put on them, the middle child gets ignored, and the youngest gets anything they want. [Thats how it is in my house], But if you feel like everythings put on you, You should really try talking to your parents and letting them know how you feel. I know it seems harder than what it sounds, but to avoid anything bad in the future, thats what you should do. I hope all goes well with you, sorry if I wasn’t any help.

• Advice Girl, (:

I feel the same way b.c. my older brother does drugs and has made a lot of mistakes but I love him and hes the only one in my famly that makes me happy, but yes do what makes YOU happy and if your parents are pissed about it just explain it to them

Well thanks everyone..I should probably try to talk to my parents but chances are they think that they are doing everything right. but I shall try anyways :)