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Why do my parents treat me worst?

My brothers and sisters have all the freedom in the world to use the parents credit cards, cars and everything else, but when I ask, its always no. and when I ask why they say its nothing personal, whats up with that

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Answer #1

This may seem harsh, but, my uninformed guess is that they don’t yet feel comfortable with your having access to these things. Possibly your siblings have shown more dependability, or get better grades (closely related to dependability), or are not as likely to lose their tempers, or whatever. YOU are the factor that is different. You need to take an HONEST look at yourself and see where your actions are different than your siblings. Good Luck!!

Answer #2

I am a Woman who is being treated the same way.. When I look at it, though..The Sisters, and or Brothers that are getting that help..NEED IT. If you, as a Sister can say..Yes, I have been able to handle the things that I need to handle, and I dont need that constant help.. I mean.. DON’T YOU MANAGE TO GET THINGS DONE WITHOUT THAT HELP…The help I KNOW you want and sometimes you think you need it.. Hon, Trust Me..THEY EXPECT YOU TO BE ABLE TO HANDLE THINGS, AND WISH YOUR SIBLINGS WOULD, ALSO. TRULY.. Hold your head up..Do what YOU know you Can, and observe the things that are going on around you. WoW. Just think..If you couldnt handle it, they’d help you TOO.

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