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Why do I feel so guilty, I didn't do anything wrong?

I’ve been dating this guy, he has 2 kids. He is very nice to me, but it seems he expects too much from me. I have things to do, I can’t be there every weekend, im trying to get my life on track. We get along great. He seems like he has to many problems, both parents dead. In many bad relationships, and I feel like more of a councilor than a girlfriend. It breaks my heart when he tells me when hes with me, its the happiest he has ever been. Mainly because I can’t see this relationship working out. When I picture my future, I see me being with someone who don’t expect nothing of me, I’ll just try my best and it will be good enough. Someone who has a job & finished high school and has plans like I do. When I have a child, I want them to be his first child as well. He isnt allowed to see his children cause conflict with the mothers. I feel so guilty cause I put peoples happiness ahead of mine & I always get hurt in the end. What do I do?

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Well as much as it may hurt him.. you have to let him down easy.. I know its gonna hurt him.. but you have to do whats best for you..if you are always concerned about other people’s feelings, then you are only gonna end up hurting yourself in the end by trying to make everyone else happy.. so anyways.. good luck.. xx. superfresh.

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