Why do I feel like this?

alright. I’m in highschool. and don’t think that I am going to run out and do this, because I’m definetly not. I’m smart enough not too. but I just keeping wanting to have a baby. like it’s all I think about, I even have dreams about it. like when I see people on tv or out in town or something with a kid or pregnant, I just want a kid sooo bad. is this normal? why do I feel like this?

Answer #1

It is normal.It means you may have such low self esteem and are so selfish they worry about themselves and not that baby. There is no way you can love and give that baby what it needs and you want it to love them. Babies do not love. They are the most selfish and complicated and demanding creature on earth and only mature people should have them. Teenage girls use them to trap guys…because they feel unloved and whatnot. And I am a 14 girl!lol!Hope I helped!=D

Answer #2

yes this is normal. many people feel like this. its just your body’s way of telling you that your hormones are changing and are ready to take the next step in life. but be cautious you want to have a child with the right person because having two people in the relationship with a child is a lot better then being a single parent and it is also a lot better for the child. A child needs both a father and a mother. take you time find the right person to do this with and then you can discuss this with that person and go from there. but get together with someone and be with them for at least a year or so and then settle down and have a kid. dont rush nature just let it take its own course.

Answer #3

What’s normal anyway? Maybe there are other things in your life that you would rather not deal with or think about . . . perhaps this is your mind’s way of not dealing with those other things. May I suggest volunteering at your local hospital – in the maternity ward, see if they need/want someone to help out. You would be doing good and learning at the same time. All the best to you – Enjoy the day.

Answer #4

its normal waht you need is a reality check, you need to think about evrything besides the cute little things, when you find that these thoughts are rushing over you, think about what you want to do in your future, if you want to go to college and get a good job so that you baby can have its own room and have all the things that it needs, its gonna be tough your never gonna have enoug time or sleep. pluse you should try to think about what you want to offer your baby and what your gonna do to be able to give all of that,, its gonna take time sweetie, I know its tough but youve got to think logically about EVERYTHING that comes along with a baby. :)

Answer #5

I loved the fact that you asked this question…!!! when I was like 15 almost 16 I started working at a mcdonalds so every baby that came into the door was the greatest feeling ever like I wated to have one soo bad and I totally understand you and yess it is normal and it means that your body is changing.. also im pretty sure that when the time comes you’ll be a great mom and just so you know children are the most wonderful thing a mother could have, I have an 11 month old boy and he is the greatest thing I have in my life… Just a little advice when you have a baby is for yourself men are VERY different frm us and although soome women have the privilage 2 have a husband or b/f on the picture you are the one who is going to do all the chores and take care of him/her soo have that on mind NEVER have a baby thinking your partner will be there all the way …babys are a lot of work but at the end of the day it’s the most beautiful thing!!!

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