Why can't I relax during sex??

I’ve only done it twice, just recently, and, I got to tell you, it depends on the man that handles you. I mean, I’m not all that experienced and he was my first and still is but the way he makes me feel is amazing. He make me relax. the words he saids and how he touches me, gentle and passionate, like everything at once.

Try to enjoy the moment. feel his tenderness and passion. Breath in slow and easy as he touches you and goes into you. Let your body feel, do what it wants. don’t object to your needs and let every feeling take over. don’t think relax, just breath and feel. [that worked for me and trust me, I was so stressed about doing it for the first. When I gave in my boyfriend thought I was amazing]

But if there’s no bond between the two of you and just sex, I’m not sure what to say. I mean, there’s just so much adrenaline and need when you care for someone and you want to be that intimate with that person that everything just falls into place. Sex is a powerfully thing, something not many people should share just with anyone.

Hope I helped.