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Why can't I get my penis into my girlfriend's vagina?

My girlfriend and I keep trying for sex, but I can only fit my penis in about 2/3 inches, then she finds it too painful and she has too stop. My penis is only average width, so that’s surely not the problem.

My girlfriend is a virgin, but I don’t think her hymen is the problem, as I can get a couple of inches in. It almost looks as if my girlfriend’s vagina has no opening whatsoever.

We do a lot of foreplay beforehand, and she’s definitely really into the idea of sex, and is always horny and wet, but we still have no luck with penetration. What do you think the problem is?

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Answer #1

well dude, considering shes a virgin shes ganna be “tight” so you gotta go slow to loosen her up, and if you see alittle blood the first time dont freak out, its normal.

Answer #2

When I was a virgin it hurt for me too because I was really tight. If she doesnt want to do it dont make her but if she really wants to try to talk her through it and console her while your trying to go farther in. Also be very slow and gentle and telll her before hand that your going to be.

Answer #3

well I can tell you the first time I had sex, it really hurt when he tried to get it in. But eventutally I just stuck the pillow over my head and told him to do it. it wil hurt for lil a second but the pain will go away.

Answer #4

well like I’m personaly a virgin but I think I can help.., ok well when my boyfriend fingered me it hurt and when he got deep in he felt 2 openings. so we looked it up and it said that it is your himen. but then we looked at like really nasty, but helpful pictures and it said that if you don’t do things a lot that it will certainly get tighter than you think, but it may hurt but take it easy on her!! I’m personally going through the same thing!! :) hope I helped!!!

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