Why are we treated like this?

Dear Fau:

Communication is the key to resolving any problem that we have with others, especially family members. Families are extremely close, which makes things much more emotional. You love them so much, that it causes the hurt feels to be intensify. If these hurt feelings are not shared with the family member, then anger, bitterness and resentment will ultimately set in and ruin the relationship.

My advice is that you be open and honest with Christina and tell her how you feel. A lot of times people do not even realize that their actions have hurt the feelings of those they love so much. When we go to them open and honestly, in love, not only do we strengthen our relationship with them, but we will hopefully show them an area in their life that needs work.  (A word of caution is needed here. Sometimes it is tough for the person to admit that they have an area in their life that needs work. Be patient and loving as you confront them and give them time to correct the problem) Avoiding someone is never your first course of action. You should only avoid those whom you have confronted in love, yet they have refuse to hear you, admit their faults and agree to attempt to change.

A possible expiation as to the favoring her sister over you. People are naturally closer to their siblings than anyone else. They love their whole family, yet, in reality, they are closer to their brothers and sisters.

Above all I know she loves you. Please talk to her about this