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Why am I having the urge to be pregnant?

I know there is a question similar to this out there, however I am not 15, I am 27 and I was married about 9 months ago. I have always told myself that we are not ready for children because we bought a house 2 years ago, have school loans to pay off, and just do not seem financially ready. Also many people have told us to enjoy our marriage for a few years before bringing children into the mix. However in the last 2 weeks I have been “craving” sex and pregnangcy.

I have been looking up different information on the internet regarding fertility planning and becoming pregnant, I almost feel like I am obsested with the idea.

I guess I am curious as to if this feeling is natural? I know women have the natural urge to mother, but is there a right or wrong time? Should my husband spend a few more years enjoying each other?

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Answer #1

It might be good to wait and have a little more alone time with your husband. However, you are in a loving and stable relationship and that’s what a child would require at the end of the day.

It may not be the most convenient time to have a baby but there’s nothing wrong with having one now.

And I believe it is quite natural for a woman to want to be a mother. At the age you are especially. I think it’s perfectly fine that you have these urges.

Good luck :)

Answer #2

Talk to your hubby about kids and see what his take is before you go planning on your own. It has to be a decision agreed by the both of you otherwise, you may hurt your marriage besides helping.

Answer #3

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