Urge to be pregnant

It is not weird to WANT to have a baby. But you are only 15 years old. Trust me you don’t want to become pregnant. You need to do what is right and wait until you have a career, have a house, have a wonderful marriage or in a very commited relationship. If a 15 year old boy got you pregnant do you honestly think he will be there for you and help you raise a baby? Most likely..no! Please do yourself and an innocent baby a favor and PLEASE wait until you have your life figured out!

Mostly all girls have the deathly want to reproduce thanks to instinct. We want something that we can coddle and hold and give all of our love. I even have them on occasion and I despise children and would be a horrible parent. However, just because you want it and you feel “ready” that does not mean that you should follow through. Every girl feels like that, but I think you can take a good look at your local high school and see that absolutely none of those girls are ready and probably won’t be for another ten years. This is the one instance for which I feel that a feeling of readiness just does not suffice. You should be married for enough time to ensure that he is NOT going to leave you EVER, even when things are rough and you fight. You have to know that he is going to be a good parent and is fully prepared to take on and help you with all the responsibilities and finally you should be in a financial state where you can easily (even if things don’t go quite as planned and my child gets into a deathly car accident or I do) put them through four years of college. If you do not wait for these things you are doing your child a disservice and it will know. It may not recognize the fault when it is young but once it has some culture in it, and it will look at the college acceptance letter and that empty wallet, and then it will look at you. And that is where the blame falls.

Hey, I felt the urge at the age of 16 and trust me it happened. My son is 1 1/2years old now and now I feel like another one but bad timing at the moment. It does not matter if you are 15 or 30. what matters is that how you bring the child up and of course “money”. But I mean hey if I got through it all with hardly any money but a lot of support it means that you can too. And for the father it depends on how they are like with children but even my partner admited its not the same until the father holds his bundle of joy in his arms shearing the tears of happiness. I hope you know what you do want but please dont do something you would regret later on in life.