Why can people be so nice and then so rude?

Tell me people why is that a person that can be soo nice one time can bee sooo sooo sooo rude another. If you like someone should tell them and let them know am I right? or what??

Answer #1

bi polar people lol usually people with chips on their shoulders or someone just had a nasty day. I don’t know. I live in NYC so I’m so used to it. are we talking about strangers? everyone is on edge now, the recession has everybody snapping at one another. I don’t blame them, times is hard, but come one…we can all do so much better if we help eachother. negativity is contatgeous, but so is positive behavior. a smile yields to a smile. ever seen that insuarance cmmercial? when somone does something good for a stranger, just a simple thing, leads that stranger to help and do something nice for another person…it’s really like that.

Answer #2

it could be many of reasons. I used to be one of those people when I was suffering from depression. sometimes it can be a chemical embalance, rough day, or they are just overwhelmed with stress. if you’ve known this person for a long time, and know that it’s an issue, just be patient with them and try to help them thru it. my suggestion is to just let them know that you are there for them, maybe even do something nice for them (dinner or movie). these type of people just need someone who loves them and understands them (don’t give up on them; that’s what my boyfriend did to me). it makes things worse.

Answer #3

oh also, they’ll be nice when they want something (think cops to perps…they’ll be reaaall understanding and sweet when they want information. but when they don’t get it, they’re like wild animals)

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