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Who should kiss who first?

well I have this guy friend, and we both are very into each other, and we both know it. we both work for the same company, differnt departments. well the closer we get them more sexual tension there is. and you could cut it with a knife!!! I don’t know who should make the first move here. we both have b/f, g/f. all my older women friends tell me that I can’t just leave my b/f without at least knowing if I have some spark with this guy, some sexual chemisrty. I can’t stop thinking of him. and all I honestly want him to do is kiss me. even just once so I know. what should I do?

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Answer #1

You have to decide what’s more important. Your boyfriend - or finding out how this guy feels about you. You can’t have both. You shouldn’t have to find out if his feelings are real or not before you decide what to do. If you love your boyfriend - be with him and forget about this guy. If you feel that you feelings for him are strong enough to give it a chance - break up with your boyfriend and then see how he feels.

Answer #2

well let me just say, I have no INTENTIONS of cheating. all I am saying is I am infactuated with this guy. and I just don’t know how to tell if these feelings are real, or just because he is a different kind of man. I do respect him, thats why I haven’t cheated. but how do I know if these fellings are real or not?

Answer #3

Wow, first things first. You are both in a relationship and until you are both single - you should not be purseing a relationship. The grown up and mature thing to do - would be to break up with your boyfriend because you obviously do not care about him. If you did - you would not be trying to kiss or hookup with this guy at your work. He does not deserve to be cheated on and have his girlfriend sneaking around behind his back - how would you feel if you were him and in his shoes. Like crap. Have some respect for the man.

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