Why don't I get that spark when I kiss him?

Last night I had my first kiss :) but the problem is that I didn’t really feel anything. I thought you were suppose to get a spark or something I love this guy so much but for somereason there’s nothing. We were laying in bed and I was in the mood for some fun and so was he ;) he fingered me and I did stuff to his *. but no way were we going to have sex cause is won’t do that till I’m married. Then we dis some other stuff while we were making out put nothing. I tried so hard to get the sensation but it was just blank. Why did that happen??

Answer #1

maybe he’s not the one? if your sure you love him, then I don’t know tbh.. when I first kissed my boyfriend I felt no spark at all.. but then as time went on I started to enjoy it more :) have recent but quick kisses, just to get used to it.. think about how much you love him and dont want to let him go, and your spark will come :)

Answer #2

first kisses are very over rated lol

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