Who...Is it better to use a tampon after you loose your virginity?

To me it sounds like you don’t have it in far enough. Try putting one in while sitting with your legs open. The important thing is to relax

Some people just have trouble with tampons- it happens!

As some people above have said, the most important thing is to relax- try breathing out as you insert. Another option could be using a water based lubricant until you get the hang of it.

Also, look at what sort of tampons you’re using- there’s a lot of variety out there! I’d recommend using a ‘slim’ or ‘mini’ tampon initially, nothing bigger than ‘regular’ absorbency. Also, some people have trouble with either applicator or ‘DIY’ ones- I personally find applicator ones impossible and uncomfortable as anything, but try different ones until you find one that works.

If you’re still stuck, talk to your gynecologist- they know what they’re talking about! :)

OMG, It has absolutely nothing to do with how tight you may or may not be… Tampons are not for everyone!!! I was married for 7 years & still found it uncomfortable to use tampons no matter how I tried inserting that damn thing!!!

If you have tried many times & regardless they just feel uncomfortable, either seek help from your gynecologist or just give up on the matter!

in any case, tampons were not made to hurt you…so…try try again, seek help or just do with out them like I do!

Good Luck!