We can't find the internet
Attempting to reconnect
Something went wrong!
Hang in there while we get back on track
Where can I go to get over my shyness and stop it for good?
I am 15 and I am extremely shy. When I was younger it was fine and I wasn’t affected, but I am starting college this year and it’s affecting my school work and everything. I can’t even answer questions at school, even when I know the answer I just say I don’t know! It’s getting bad and I don’t know what to do, please help!
Ok when you go to college your ON YOUR OWN the only thing thats going to matter is your grades. usually the reason behind shyness is fear of what other people think of you. but in college no one cares everyones doing their own things, its not like high school where everyone is immature. Besides, if you are EXTREMELY shy infront of others, it will bring more attention to yourself. Just relax college is chill, and remember most of the time students aren’t paying attention to what the profesor is saying, unless it’s really interesting. Its not that big of a deal trust me.
Hope I helped :)
-Lylybell
Get out of your comfort zone in everything that you do (it’s going to be tricky, but it should boost your confidence enough to start getting over your shyness). For example if you are scared of heights, go do rock climbing, or bungee or something really freaky for you. Or even small things like public speaking or dancing. And practice, practice, practice. The more you do things, the better you’ll get at them.
Meaby try doing school projects whit other people, also meaby joinig after school activities whit a lot of people in it, also talking to new people e.c.t… GOOD LUCK:)
woah 15 in college lol thats really something but anyway if its presenting something or simply talking out loud look for a friend in the crowd and focus your attention on that person but dont make it look like your only looking at him or her make sure you scan the crowd and if its just answering the question take a second to breathe and then clearly state the answer!
practice. I was the same way. and when I did presentations I would focus on my work and just relax. you 15 startin college?!!!
Your 15 and going to college? O_o..Anyway… First you cant GO anywhere to “fix” your shyness as far as I know anyway.. Id suggest you really think about why you are so shy.. If you can figure that out you can figure out a way to fix it.. Like if your afraid of what people will think of you if you say something.. You then know you have to change that way of thinking to something more positive. like, “If I talk to people and they judge me who cares, its just one person some people will in fact like me. I dont need everyone to like..Plus I’m sure they are judging me even when im quiet..”
Oh thats a real shame seriously :O but I know how you feel cause I have the same problem :( hmm is there anyone in your class that you are imbarret of ? cecause this is why I am shy in my other classes when that person isnt there im fine :) so it mught be just people that you are around with or its just real YOU… hm if it is then im so sorry but I dont know how to answer your question hope there is someone that will help you :D Good luck xxx. and if I think of something ill let you know
WTF?!?!!15 and in college?!Good 4 u!!!U must be very smart!!!Lucky!By 15 I will be in my freshman year in High School!LUCKY!!!U MUST have a scholarship!!!
-
How do you get photobucket images to go next to eachother? - 2 Answers
How do you get photobucket images to go next to eachother on your myspace profile and not below eachother?
-
What is a good scene name to go with cindy? - 2 Answers
Whats a good scene name for the like internet.my name is cindy and I dont know what to put any ideas?!
-
A good way to get over it? - 3 Answers
I've been feeling terrible ever since I got the news my dog was going to die. He has a tumor in one of his lungs a little sma...
-
is there any way I can stop self harming and smoking before it get - 1 Answers
is there any way I can stop self harming and smoking before it get any worse than it is ?
-
Where should I go to celebrate getting my license? - 5 Answers
so where should my best friend and I go for my first "legal but unlegal" drive to celebrate me getting it??
-
When you go to the justice of the peace/courthouse to get married and you have a warrent for an unpaid traffic ticket, will they do anything? - 2 Answers
This may be a stupid question...but i have a traffic ticket thats unpad that i forgot about and we were planning on going to ...
-
how do i get my friend to stop sucking her thumb? - 6 Answers
my friend is 15 she cant help it she keeps telling me to just breck her thumbs but i am not going to do that lol any tips ?
-
How to get people to stop honking at us? - 7 Answers
whenever me & my friends walk somewhere where there is a lot of cars, we cant seem to get there without 10-15 cars honking @ ...
-
how do you say in spanish what are we going to do when I get there? - 3 Answers
I need to know for my friend... please Hispanics helppp I want to hold better conversation with the person I am desperate for...
-
how do i get over my shyness ? - 17 Answers
i love rapping but im very shy most of the boys assumem im not good because im a girl & very shy one ill shake clutch my han...
Obladi Creatives
Digital Marketing Agency, Branding Agency
Papers-Land.com
Academic Writing Services, Professional Help with Assignments, Complex Project Assistance
Askquiry
Education, Q&A, Information Services
Dwello
flats, projects, properties, homes
HugeDomains
Domain Name Registration, E-commerce, Online Marketing