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Whats wrong with being intelligent?
What is with all the hate on girls who are decent looking being intelligent or considering themsleves intelligent. It’s a free world but yet guys still have the mind set that girls are supposed to sit there and look pretty. Why just because someone portrays themselves as being smart that people feel the need to give negitive feedback and lower there self confidence therefore in a way almost affecting how intelligent they really are? What is with this stereoytpe and how can we stop it cause I’m so tired of hearing stupid gender biased comments :(
from my experaince I learn that looking / acting / been intelligent when your are in school years is a bad thing to do if you are looking for boy friend / girl friend…why you might ask ?
Simply the reason is the magority of younger girls to the ages of 18 / 19 like boys who are bad, funny, mess around, make them laff, make the girl see that he has fun with her and isnt afraid to take on a relationship or sexual relationship.
Now boys look for a girl who is pretty much the same as them selfvs. so if they act bad and all of the above then they will look for a girl who is bad, messes around, and by her loooking sexually acctactive, make up, or blonde hair, tight jeans what ever turns them on.
Now intelligent people which I would say here loose out…they may be able to pass the maths quizes in class but they can not get layed. why ???
an intelligent person comes over as like, they know what they want at a young age. obviously by knowing someone thinks / looks intelligent you think they want something elce / a big house / that special career they always wanted or what ever and it puts them boy / girl off. someone who acts intelligent will probably be unlikley to even concidder a lad who doesnt act intelligent (not to say he aint).
The intelligent people who act intelligent ect are more likley to meet a partner after they leave school and go on to college / uni where there are people pertty much at the same level as them selves.
My 2 cents are, if you concidder your self intelligent dont show it so much. still have fun and mess around its ok to get in trubble now and then and also you get a chance to have a partner earlier.
I would say guys who want just sex will go with a girl who looks that part. which is usually what happends at all ages…
intelligent people will usually stick with one guy / girl and concentrate on other things like working. thats why intelligent people dont attract the magority or partners at young ages.
Its a crucial world. I agree, someones image says nothing about their personality. Theres nothing really we can do to stop it, just stand up for yourself and don’t let others get you down.
- B e l I e v e * :)
Girls mature faster than boys. Many boys are attracted to girls who are somewhat younger or less intelligent because they seem less threatening.
Among adults this isn’t necessarily the case. Sometimes men will find naievete charming in women but usually adults of both sexes want intelligent partners.
not everyone is like that. theres guys who base there opinions of girls on looks, and theres guys who base there opinion of girls on personality…then there a whole bunch of other guys in between! dont listen to people who put you down, because also in a lot of cases, smarter people put people who just stand around and look pretty down as well. it kind of goes both ways. but you should never let anyones comments affect you to the point of intellegence. learn to ignore them and dont let it get to you, because in another 5 or so years none of it is going to matter. you cant please everyone so dont try. just stick up for yourself, and stay true to yourself
I know that most of the guys are like that…But,There are others who would just prefer intelligent and sophisticated girls instead of just some dumb blond bimbo although the percentage of those is quite low… Although I do not know much about this stuff,I’d say that 1 day,you’ll find a perfect guy with brains because,(no offence to the other guys who read this question) most of the boys who like wool-headed girls are sometimes dumb…because brains are better than looks any day… Just be patient…:-)
I dont know where you live but I for one have to have a girl who has a brain.
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