What turns women on in bed most,I've been cut off, I need more?

Relationships isn’t only about sex and I am sure you would know this. But sometimes it really feels that way in this day and age.

Females need to feel emotionally connected to have real sex. If she is not responding to your advances, it’s possible that she does not feel much for you at the moment. Draw her out not with threats like cheating, but throw sex aside (I know it’s hard) for a moment, seriously sit her down and GENTLY ask her whether or not she thinks there’s something wrong with their relationship OUTSIDE of sex. Ask her if she’s being filled emotionally, whether she feels like she can talk to you - if not, why not - or is there some sort of physical conditions that she has developed that she is really embarressed to tell you about, making it hard for her to desire sex? Be patient and gentle and GENTLY talk about how you can both improve in your communication. A useful theory on relationships is that women needs love and guys need respect. When a guy feels disrespected, he will react unlovingly - when a gal feels unloved, she will react disrespectfully and so the cycle goes on. Be the man that is willing to keep stepping in to love her, not just physically but also emotionally and in other ways - romance her maybe? Be a friend? - because the other side of the theory is that when a guy feels respected, he will act lovingly, and when the girl feels loved she will naturally react respectfully and it builds both parties up. - credited to the book “Love and Respect’’ by Dr. Emmerson

Do not cheat. Love her. It’s a decision you made 7 years ago. Keep it - because you still have a choice to remain to be a man of integrity.