What to do when your father lies?

Today my father went to the bar next to my familys house I know I am an adult but he promised on my life and my sisters life he would not go over there.Then to top it off he went upstair woke my mom up to tell her he was going over and she did not give me any back up on the issue him not going. he said he would be home in a few minutes but it turned put to be 2 hours. how do I get back at him or how do I confront him?

Answer #1

Well you are an adult, and he does what he does with his life. He did make a promise but when people are addicted to something they can’t stop no matter what. It’s your famelies choice if you want to keep on living in that inviorment.

Answer #2

Well, if he’s an alcoholic, his intentions were probably good, he simply couldn’t keep those intentions. I know…the road to hell is paved with good intentions…but I can tell you, that when I drank, I really meant it when I said 10 minutes only…or that I’d only have one beer…it just never worked out that way.

Maybe you’re butting in where you don’t belong? Seeings that he told your mom, and she didn’t ‘back you up’…talk to her, and find out why…

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Answer #3

I did ask my mom and she said she gives up he is a stuburn asswhole that drops everything for his friends and not his children

Answer #4

Look , the truth is : he is what he is and you can not change him. Pray for him and kill evel with kindness.

Answer #5

I think you should guilt him a little by saying how much you and your sister love him and would never do anything to hurt him yuet he constantly hurts you and your sister by lying and throwing his life away at the bar it will make him think more rather than just saying I promise real quick to something you ask

Answer #6

why is this an issue firstly ? as depending on why as to what you should do , basicly though he showed you his promises are worthless

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